Therapy And coaching for moms of color

You deserve to enjoy your motherhood and the life you worked so damn hard to build.

This is therapy, coaching, and soul-deep support that centers your Matrescence. Rooted in nervous system healing, decolonized care, and radical joy, this work helps you come home to yourself in a world that’s asked you to disappear. Online therapy for moms in Texas and Massachusetts, and coaching nationwide.

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People think moms should be grateful...

... selfless, and always okay. But here’s the truth: You can love your children with your whole chest and still feel like motherhood is breaking you. That doesn’t make you weak. That doesn’t make you ungrateful. That makes you human.

And you deserve support that sees all of you—not just the parts that keep going, because motherhood is not meant to cost you yourself.

This isn’t about going back.

It’s about expanding into the version of you that motherhood is calling forward.


At Matrescence in Color, I blend therapy, coaching, and culturally-rooted, nervous system-based care to support moms through the sacred (and sometimes soul-rattling) transition of early motherhood.

This is whole-person, whole-mama healing—mind, body, and joy.
Not surface-level self-care. Not “do more with less.” Not grind culture dressed up as empowerment.

Because you were never the problem. The system was.

And around here? We don’t normalize burnout. We dismantle it.

Every Space I Create Offers This

You’ll grow into a fuller, freer version of you.

Whether it’s through mindset work, body-based healing, or reclaiming your joy—this work helps you reconnect with the woman underneath the noise. Not to become someone new, but to grow into who motherhood has been calling forward all along.

We start with the body, not the to-do lists.

You don’t need another checklist. You need nervous system care, real body nourishment, and rituals that make healing feel human. When your body feels safe, the rest of you can finally exhale—and that’s when the healing sticks.

You’ll mother on your terms, not theirs.

No more playing by rules you didn’t agree to. In every space I create, you’re invited to define motherhood in a way that aligns with your truth, not societal scripts. That means leading with joy, power, rest, and desire—not guilt, shame, or survival mode.


She helped me find myself beneath the chaos. Vanessa’s support was

 the exhale I didn’t know I needed.

- Therapy client

1000+

Women and moms of color supported through therapy and coaching

14

Years of clinical experience helping women thrive

90%

Of my clients say they feel more regulated, resourced, and seen after our first session

Years of becoming and being a mother myself; learning and unlearning

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I’m a licensed therapist, Matrescence coach, and the founder of Matrescence in Color. For nearly 15 years, I’ve helped women process pain, rewrite patterns, and reclaim their power. But nothing cracked me open like motherhood.

Now, I help moms of color feel grounded, present, and actually joyful—by tending to the nervous system, unlearning the patriarchal BS, and building a life that feels like theirs.

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for the moms in tX + MA

therapy intensives

A powerful 1:1 deep-dive designed to get to the root, fast—because you don’t have six months to maybe feel better.

reclaimed

for the moms nationwide

A 16-week guided group experience for the mom who’s ready to stop disappearing in motherhood—and start living from wholeness.

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Therapy helped me create a rhythm that actually works for me and my family.  I’m finally learning to rest without guilt

and that doing nothing is doing something.

- Therapy client

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Why doesn’t your self-care actually work?

Ready to understand why your self-care doesn’t stick — and what your nervous system has been trying to tell you all along? (Of course you are. You’re the kind of mom who’s tried everything and still feels like something’s missing.)

Drop your email below and I’ll send you my free guide, 'Regulate Like a Mother': A powerful reframe on burnout, Matrescence, and the body-first work that makes healing finally land.

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