This is therapy, coaching, and soul-deep support that centers your Matrescence. Rooted in nervous system healing, decolonized care, and radical joy, this work helps you come home to yourself in a world that’s asked you to disappear. Online therapy for moms in Texas and Massachusetts, and coaching nationwide.
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... selfless, and always okay. But here’s the truth: You can love your children with your whole chest and still feel like motherhood is breaking you. That doesn’t make you weak. That doesn’t make you ungrateful. That makes you human.
And you deserve support that sees all of you—not just the parts that keep going, because motherhood is not meant to cost you yourself.
It’s about expanding into the version of you that motherhood is calling forward.
At Matrescence in Color, I blend therapy, coaching, and culturally-rooted, nervous system-based care to support moms through the sacred (and sometimes soul-rattling) transition of early motherhood.
This is whole-person, whole-mama healing—mind, body, and joy.
Not surface-level self-care. Not “do more with less.” Not grind culture dressed up as empowerment.
Because you were never the problem. The system was.
And around here? We don’t normalize burnout. We dismantle it.
Whether it’s through mindset work, body-based healing, or reclaiming your joy—this work helps you reconnect with the woman underneath the noise. Not to become someone new, but to grow into who motherhood has been calling forward all along.
You don’t need another checklist. You need nervous system care, real body nourishment, and rituals that make healing feel human. When your body feels safe, the rest of you can finally exhale—and that’s when the healing sticks.
No more playing by rules you didn’t agree to. In every space I create, you’re invited to define motherhood in a way that aligns with your truth, not societal scripts. That means leading with joy, power, rest, and desire—not guilt, shame, or survival mode.
1000+
Women and moms of color supported through therapy and coaching
14
Years of clinical experience helping women thrive
90%
Of my clients say they feel more regulated, resourced, and seen after our first session
Years of becoming and being a mother myself; learning and unlearning
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I’m a licensed therapist, Matrescence coach, and the founder of Matrescence in Color. For nearly 15 years, I’ve helped women process pain, rewrite patterns, and reclaim their power. But nothing cracked me open like motherhood.
Now, I help moms of color feel grounded, present, and actually joyful—by tending to the nervous system, unlearning the patriarchal BS, and building a life that feels like theirs.
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A powerful 1:1 deep-dive designed to get to the root, fast—because you don’t have six months to maybe feel better.
A 16-week guided group experience for the mom who’s ready to stop disappearing in motherhood—and start living from wholeness.
Therapy helped me create a rhythm that actually works for me and my family. I’m finally learning to rest without guilt
and that doing nothing is doing something.
- Therapy client
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Ready to understand why your self-care doesn’t stick — and what your nervous system has been trying to tell you all along? (Of course you are. You’re the kind of mom who’s tried everything and still feels like something’s missing.)
Drop your email below and I’ll send you my free guide, 'Regulate Like a Mother': A powerful reframe on burnout, Matrescence, and the body-first work that makes healing finally land.
She helped me find myself beneath the chaos. Vanessa’s support was
the exhale I didn’t know I needed.
- Therapy client