No planner, hack, or routine will give you the ease you crave.
No planner, hack, or routine will give you the ease you crave.
If your nervous system is fried, no color-coded planner or 'mommy me time' is going to cut it. You don't need another hack—you need healing.
plot twist:
I’m Ready for Ease
The version of you who isn’t just pushing through?
She’s not gone. She’s just beneath the weight of the mental load, the endless to-dos, and the unspoken expectations.
But she’s still there. Waiting to be seen. Heard. Felt.
Just imagine if you could:
No more shell. Just the real you.
Imagine a version of motherhood that feels like you—not the exhausted version holding it all together.
Wake up without that familiar knot of anxiety in your chest
Say no without the guilt trip—yours or anyone else's
Take a breath that actually feels like a release, not just a pause
A slower, softer, more sane life isn’t a fantasy.
It’s just been crowded out by survival mode.
the life you know is possible
the life you know is possible
but feels so out of reach
here's what you’re craving
You want to stop living in the gaps between who you are and who you’ve had to be. To stop surviving the day and actually experience it.
And if you're being honest? You want to:
Feel like motherhood adds to your identity—not swallows it
Move through your days with less reactivity, more intention
Say “yes” only when you mean it (not because you’re afraid to say no)
Feel proud of the way you show up—for your family and for yourself
Reconnect with a sense of rhythm, peace, and wholeness
And do it all without sacrificing your values, your voice, or your sanity
You’re not asking for a new life. You love being a mom, and love your children.
You’re asking to finally feel good in the one you worked so damn hard to build.
97% of Millennial moms say they feel burned out
- Motherly, 2020
No wonder your nervous system is screaming.
But most of them can’t even name why. Not because they’re failing—but because they’re navigating motherhood in a system that was never designed with them in mind, let alone help them recalibrate after becoming a mom.
Matrescence pulls you into expansion. But modern motherhood pushes you to shrink.
A 16-week program that helps overwhelmed, self-sacrificing moms become grounded, joyful, and whole again—without waiting for “someday” or losing themselves to modern motherhood.
motherhood reclaimed
introducing...
Phase One
The Unraveling: Unlearn the conditioning that’s kept you stuck in burnout. We’ll gently untangle the perfectionism, the pressure, and the patriarchy—so you can reconnect with your body, your needs, and your inner strength.
your reclamation roadmap
start the release
integration break
You rest. You reflect. You root. No new content this week. Rest is not a pause in the work. It is the work.
These two weeks are about letting what’s surfaced settle in. No pressure. No performance. Just space to process, breathe, and be. Because pushing through is what got us here. This time, you slow down to move forward.
the pause i need
phase two
The Reclamation. With a grounded foundation, we begin the rebuild. This time, from the inside out. You’ll reclaim your Matrescence, your thoughts, your body, your joy—and your Self. Not the version shaped by hustle, guilt, or survival…
But the one that’s been waiting underneath it all—ready to live, lead, and mother on your terms.
i want to reclaim it all
celebration
You don’t just finish—you arrive. This is the exhale. The holy pause. We honor what you’ve shifted, seal in what you’ve claimed, and send you off—not to “go back to normal,” but to keep building a life that actually feels like yours. With tools, lifetime access, and a reminder: you’re not the same woman who started this journey—and that’s the point.
i made it. let's mark it
"Vanessa brought me back to myself. As a mom, as a woman, as a whole human being."
You could keep white-knuckling your way through motherhood—devouring more podcasts, downloading more checklists, DIY’ing your healing like it’s a Pinterest project gone rogue.
You could keep whispering, “Next week I’ll slow down. Next month I’ll feel better.”
Only to blink and realize another year’s gone by... and you’re still stuck in the same loop of burnout and over-functioning.
You could keep shelling out thousands on therapy, coaching, and “self-care” that never truly lands—because no one’s guiding you to the root. No one’s helping you heal where the wound actually lives: your nervous system, your conditioning, your identity.
Or, You could make one decision that changes everything.
One that doesn’t ask you to hustle, fix, or become someone else.
What’s the cost of staying in survival mode?
step into a new version of you
12 Core Teaching Modules – Deep-dive lessons rooted in Matrescence, nervous system healing, identity restoration, and more. ($3600 value)
12 Live Coaching Calls – Intimate group sessions where you get real-time support and personalized guidance. ($1200 value)
4 Supported Integration & Reflection Weeks – Built-in nervous system-friendly pauses to help you absorb, reflect, and implement with support, not just consume. ($800 value)
Printable Reclaimed Workbook – A beautifully designed companion guide to anchor your reflections, breakthroughs, and growth. ($200 value)
The Restoration Library – A curated vault of rituals, tools, practices, and resources to return to any time you need to recalibrate. ($400 value)
Private Community Space – Come as you are and be met, supported, and witnessed by myself and other women doing this sacred work. ($300 value)
Total Value: $6,500+
Your Investment for Reclaimed?
Reclaimed isn’t about getting back to your “old self.” She’s not the goal—you are. The whole, grounded, powerful... expansive version you’re growing into. And this 16-week journey? It’s her permission slip.
here's everything you get inside:
Just $1997
(or snag a 3-pay or 6-pay option if that’s your vibe)
your price?
save me a spot
There are only 10 spots available!
Not to be dramatic, but they will go.
This work is intimate, intentional, and built for real transformation. If your gut is whispering “it’s time”—listen.
Someday is a myth. Now is the move.
join us now
Try Reclaimed for 7 days. Get your money back if it didn’t serve you.
Because this is deep work, it requires deep commitment.
Reclaimed is not a passive digital course—it’s an immersive healing experience with limited capacity and live support. That’s why, to honor the integrity of the space (and your own transformation), this program is final sale after the first 7 days.
If you join and realize within 7 days that this isn’t the right fit, reach out, show me you’ve engaged with the material (watched the first module, attended or watched the first call, and completed the initial workbook reflection), and I’ll offer you a full refund.
After that, because you have lifetime access and the ability to return to the work anytime, there are no further refunds. You’re not just investing in this season—you’re investing in your future self.
Full terms + conditions can be found [here].
money back guarantee
100%
I’m a licensed therapist, Matrescence coach, and the founder of Matrescence in Color. For nearly 15 years, I’ve helped women process pain, rewrite patterns, and reclaim their power. But nothing cracked me open like motherhood.
Now, I help moms of color feel grounded, present, and actually joyful—by tending to the nervous system, unlearning the patriarchal BS, and building a life that feels like theirs.
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I had the training. The experience. The tools.
And still motherhood leveled me. When I became a mom, everything shifted.
I realized I’d spent over a decade helping women cope with systems that were never made for us—band-aiding burnout, sugarcoating sacrifice, naming the wound but not healing it.
And then I was the one drowning. Not because I didn’t “know better” (sis, I am a therapist), but because modern motherhood kept asking me to disappear in order to function.
It didn’t matter that I had degrees and frameworks and all the mindset tricks—I was unraveling under the weight of doing it all, perfectly.
That was my wake-up call: we don’t need better coping skills. We need to reclaim ourselves.
I didn’t just build this program, I needed it.
that's how you know I can help!
Reclaimed isn’t just different... it’s revolutionary
I'm not hyping it because it's mine. I’m hyping it because it works.
This isn’t another feel-good workshop or self-help soundbite. It’s a sacred return.
While most programs hand you hacks, Reclaimed hands you your self.
Rooted in nervous system science, Matrescence-informed care, and decolonized support, it’s the only space of its kind—where therapy-level depth meets coach-like momentum, made specifically for ambitious moms of color who are done shrinking and ready to live from their full damn selves.
You won’t just learn how to cope—you’ll unlearn the rules that told you you had to. You’ll reconnect with your body, your joy, your boundaries, and your voice. This isn’t about piling on more to do. It’s a whole new way to be. And it doesn’t just change how you mother. It changes how you live.
ready to reclaim
You’ve got the journal, the crystals, the Calm app, and a Pinterest board titled ‘Soft Era’—but you still feel like you’re barely holding it together.
You’re ready to stop blaming yourself—because deep down you know it’s not you, it’s the generational trauma, the grind culture, and the ‘strong Black woman’ myth that taught you burnout was normal.
You’re not afraid of depth—you crave it. You’ve already side-eyed the toxic positivity, skipped the “good vibes only” girlies, and rolled your eyes at mindset mantras that ignore lived experience.
You want motherhood to feel like growth, not erasure. You’re tired of shape-shifting to fit every role—employee, wife, mother, daughter—while the real you gets quieter and quieter.
You want support that knows the whole you—therapy-trained, trauma-aware, soul-led. Because you’re not here for surface-level, ‘just journal it out’ advice anymore.
You’re done waiting for “someday.” You’ve already lit the candles, made the vision boards, and told yourself to “just get through this season.” But you’re ready to actually feel good—right here, right now.
This is for you if:
this is for me
What if I don't have time for this right now?
Totally fair—and super common. But here’s the truth: the longer you wait, the easier it is to lose yourself… and start believing that’s just what motherhood is supposed to feel like.. Reclaimed is designed to meet you in the realness of motherhood. With bite-sized lessons, flexible pacing, and built-in integration weeks, this isn’t about adding more to your plate. It’s about finally making space for you.
real talk before you hit "join now"
What if I sign up and don't follow through?
You’re not alone in that fear. Life is full. That’s why this isn’t some hustle-heavy program—it’s intentionally built with rest, reflection, and flexibility in mind. Show up as you are. Miss a live call? You’ll get the replay. Need a breather? That’s what the integration breaks are for. Need accountability? That's what me and the community are for. Healing doesn’t require perfection—it just needs permission. And this is your permission slip.
This feels like a lot of money. Is it really worth it?
Let’s be real: this costs less than 6 months of therapy. But more importantly? Consider the cost of not doing this work. Staying stuck in burnout. Constantly second-guessing yourself. Passing down patterns you’re trying to break. The price of inaction is your peace, your presence, and your power. Reclaimed is a fraction of the cost—but it’s packed with real transformation. Payment plans are available so you can access it now, not “someday.”
How do I know this will actually work for me?
Reclaimed isn’t a one-size-fits-all blueprint. It’s a multidimensional approach that blends evidence-based practices, identity reclamation, body nourishment, mindset work, nervous system care, and radical unlearning of patriarchal motherhood. This isn’t about giving you more rules to follow—it’s about guiding you back to your own inner compass. If you’re ready to get honest, be witnessed, and do the real work? This program will shift something in you. And that shift? It ripples into everything.
I’m not sure about the group setting... I’m more of a private person.
Opening up in a group can feel intimidating, especially when you’re used to carrying so much on your own. But here’s what research (and real life) tells us: moms don’t just benefit from community—they heal in it.
There’s something powerful about hearing “me too” from someone who actually gets it. Reclaimed isn’t a performative, overshare-y vibe—it’s a safe, intimate space where depth meets gentleness. You’ll never be forced to share, but you will be supported, witnessed, and reminded that you’re not alone. And honestly? That’s part of the magic.
I still have questions. Can I talk to someone?
Absolutely. You can send an email to me directly at vanessa@matrescenceincolor.com or DM me on Instagram @matrescenceincolor and I’ll help you figure out if this is the right fit for you. Zero pressure, just real support.
You’ve tried the affirmations, the meditations, the self-care rituals, but nothing seems to stick. Not because you’re failing. But because you’ve been doing it alone, inside a system that rewards your silence and punishes your needs.
Reclaimed isn’t more “to do.” It’s a soft landing. A guided path to the woman you haven’t even fully met yet—because life never gave her the space to emerge.
This isn’t about coping better. It’s about finally feeling held, seen, and restored. And that starts the moment you say yes.
Enjoy the motherhood you dreamed of and the life you worked so damn hard for.
You’re just burnt out from trying to bloom in a system that never watered you.
If you’ve been waiting for a sign to finally choose you, this is it.
You’re not broken.
this is for me
"Vanessa gave me language for things I didn’t even know I was feeling.
Before Vanessa, I felt like I was doing motherhood right but still felt... uneasy. I couldn’t figure out why I was so on edge all the time. Working with Vanessa helped me name what was happening in my body and spirit, and more importantly, helped me shift it. I’m calmer. Softer. More like me.
She felt the soul call
"I didn’t think I needed support, but now I don’t know how I did it without her.
I honestly thought I was just tired. That I needed a better routine or more sleep. But working with Vanessa cracked something open. I saw how much I was carrying, how much I was silencing. Working with her isn’t really about parenting, it’s a return to wholeness and then I felt like the mother I wanted to be.
She had resistance, but said yes anyway
take it from her